Co washing curly hair – What, Why, How

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Co washing in simple words means conditioner-washing your curly hair. That is, using a conditioner instead of a shampoo to clean your curly hair. I shampoo rarely, probably once or twice per month either to get rid of any product build up, or to do a thorough cleaning if my hair was exposed to too much dirt (like when traveling), or if my hair looks too greasy and limp. For regular cleansing, I prefer co washing.

How does a conditioner clean hair?

Most conditioners have small amounts of cationic surfactants in their ingredient list, for e.g. behentrimonium chloride. These surfactants are not as heavy duty as the detergents in your shampoo but they oh-so-gently remove dirt and grease to a limited extent. So the result would be somewhere between a squeaky clean shampooed hair and dirty hair.

But bottles say “Don’t apply on scalp”!

Conditioners weigh down your roots(especially so in straight hair) leading to a flat looking crown. Curly hair can take that easily! But if you feel like it cannot, remember that we rinse off the whole conditioner after co washing. So no worries. And no, applying conditioner on scalp will not cause hairfall – Do hair products cause hair loss?

Co-Washing Curly HairHow does co washing help curly hair?

Because curly hair is dry and co washing doesn’t strip off all the oils from your hair, you are left with hair that’s softer than shampooed hair.

How often should I co wash?

Some curlies benefit with co washing every time they wash their hair. I.e. they have completely replaced their shampoos with conditioners. I am not among them. I love my sulphates and silicones.

Because I hit the gym almost every day, but I use a shampoo only once or twice a week, to get clean hair without stripping my hair off its natural oils, I like co washing my hair between my shampoo wash days.

I also do a silicone free co washing only regimen continuously for a month or so whenever I feel that my curls have started to lose their life.

Co washing is also great for dry winter months when you don’t sweat as much and don’t accumulate much dirt but your curls are very dry owing to the dry winter air.

What type of a conditioner should I use?

Any lightweight conditioner can double up as a cleansing conditioner if you are like me, who uses a traditional shampoo every now and then. But if you follow the CG method, you should look for silicone free conditioners to avoid build up. Choose an inexpensive conditioner as you would require lots of it.

Here are some conditioners that are great and lightweight as co wash cleansers

 

How to co wash curly hair

  1. Wet your hair. Make sure it’s soaking wet. This will help detangling and this also makes conditioner distribution easier.
  2. Squirt the conditioner all over the top pf your head.
  3. Using the ends of your fingers (not nails) scrub your scalp like you are massaging the conditioner into your scalp. This motion along with the mild surfactants will help lift dirt and grease. Make sure to cover every inch of your head. A shampoo brush works great for this – Scalp/Shampoo brush for shampooing and co-washing
  4. Separate your hair into 2 sections and quirt some more conditioner on the back of your head and repeat step 3.
  5. Take some conditioner in both of your palms and apply it on your scalp from behind your ears to the top of your head and repeat step 3.
  6. Apply conditioner on the lengths of your hair and finger detangle it in sections, gently rubbing it to remove dirt.
  7. Let the conditioner continue working for a few minutes.
  8. Rinse your hair thoroughly with water
  9. You can go on to apply leave ins or apply your favourite conditioner like you would normally do after shampoo and then proceed to apply leave ins.

Here is a post with my full curly hair care routine – My curly hair routine  🙂

 

Blog Comments

I wanted to read about this !! Thanks for sharing Anjana !! Will try this method 🙂

Let me know how it works!

Great post. Is it must to apply conditioner before & after wash ? Can we use same conditioner

If you think your hair is conditioned well after the co wash, you don’t have to apply conditioner again. You can use any conditioner for both purposes as long as your hair is happy !

I tried co washing yesterday Anjana. The results are amazing. My curls haven’t lost their hold. I am definitely going to do this more often. Need to stock up on conditioners now. Can you suggest some budget conditioners that I could use for a co wash?? Thanks in advance.

That’s lovely Vidya !! I love Enliven and Revlon Flex conditioners for co washing. They are silicone free and come in huge bottles for about 200 or 300 Rs. :):)

Thanks so much. Are they available in India? Need to check them out.

Oh they are easily available at shops and even online!

Thanks a ton, Amjsna 🙂 🙂 One more question, is Enliven cruelty free? I couldn’t find that out online.

http://www.enliven.co.uk/about-us/ says “Our products are not tested on animals”. They are available here – http://www.amazon.in/Enliven-Fruit-Conditioner-Kiwi-400ml/dp/B00DRDZCPU

Sorry, Anjana*

Thanks so much. Yes, I did see them on Amazon 🙂 🙂

Why does co washing make my hair sticky at the crown?
My scalp does not feel clean and I can’t run fingers though my scalp!!
Is my conditioner too heavy?
The feeling is same as when you don’t get rid of the coconut oil from the hair!!

Phalguni, which conditioner do you use for co washing?

I used L’Oreal professional absolut repair lipidium!!

Phalguni, this looks like a very thick conditioner which may not be ideal for co washing because of spreadability issue. Try light weight conditioners like https://www.curlsandbeautydiary.com/enliven-natural-fruit-extracts-conditioner-review/ or https://www.curlsandbeautydiary.com/revlon-flex-body-building-protein-conditioner-review/

Hey Anjana….I got the link to your blog from IMBB when I was reading gupshup wala page…and since then I am just hooked to your page…this is something I really needed to see. My god..why didn’t I get this earlier :(. I got my hair straightened and now, I am feeling how big mistake it was. Anyway, I have almost started getting my curly hair back. I have to follow all your suggestions after getting a hair cut done. One more request – I read that you have got electrolysis done. Can you please do a post on that.

Hi Neha! It was great to read your comment 🙂 All the best for your curly hair journey! I had written an article on IMBB – http://makeupandbeauty.com/electrolysis-permanent-hair-removal-procedure-the-best-hair-removal-method/

Thanks a lot, Anjana!! 🙂

I’m using the Dove conditioner, after shampoo and its realy good.But I’m afraid to use it for Co wash as it’s written ‘Avoid Scalp’ in the bottle.What to do ?

Dinali, brands write ‘avoid scalp’ as it can reduce volume at the roots. But in co washing we thoroughly wash off the conditioner so you will have no issues with volume. And if you have crown frizz, this will actually help you control it.

Apply oil before co-washing? What would you suggest…
by the way, I’m going to try this for the first time , hope it works for me!

I have found that oiling before co-washing leaves my hair very greasy 🙁

Hi Anjana,

I have recently stumbled across your blog through Pinterest and I must say I am finding your articles and posts really interesting. I have curly hair too that oscillates between being wavy some days (read most days) and curly. I really want to fall in love with my hair again and want to try out your methods one by one.
I have a query which might sound silly to the curly hair community but it would be great if I could get your input on this.
Reading about co-washing and conditioning – If co-washing is conditioner washing, then how is conditioning after co-washing different from co-washing? I mean if co-washing is only using conditioner and washing, then what is done differently in the conditioning process after co-washing?

Thank you Shruti 🙂 Co-washing is the use of conditioner to scrub off sweat, oil and dirt from the SCALP while conditioning softens & conditions the HAIR. Some people find that they can combine scalp cleansing and conditioning in 1 step and don’t need a separate conditioning step.

Hello Anjana,
I have curly hair and would like to try this Co-washing method. Can I use “Revlon Flex Conditioner (All Hair Types)” for it, since I don’t find the one’s you have mentioned in the country I live (Germany).
Below is the link for that conditioner:
https://www.amazon.de/Revlon-Flex-Conditioner-Types-Haartypen/dp/B00A7AFXQ4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1491823854&sr=8-1&keywords=revlon+flex+conditioner

Yes Ramya absolutely! In fact I love this for cowashing – Revlon Flex Body Building Protein Conditioner review

Hi there!wanted to know if I could use the same conditioner after co washing and should I leave the the conditioner on my hair or wash it off ?

You can use the same conditioner if you like 🙂 The conditioner on the scalp should be washed off thoroughly (so that dirt can be washed away). Conditioner on the length of the hair can be left as such.

Hi Anjana
Don’t we have to apply any products after co-washing?

I am sorry for the confusion in the article Ankita. Yes we have to apply products. I will edit the article 🙂 Thank you!

Thanks so much Anjana! i just love your blog! thanks for taking the time and effort to create this blog.. very helpful 😊

Thanks a ton!

Hi Anjuna great post again 🙂 a bit confused, shampoo twice a month or twice a week. I also hit the gym almost daily

It keeps changing..currently I shampoo once a week and cowash in between

When you say co wash between shampoo does that mean everyday you co wash or do you refresh? How often should i co wash?

Hi sarah, I cowash if I feel the need to clean my hair between shampoo washes. It depends on your individual needs 🙂

Thanks Anjana. Trying to work out a schedule for myself 🙂

Hey! I was looking into the Oriflame conditioners but they have Paraben. Is it okay to use them?

Enliven has parabens too. Parabens are not harmful to hair..the speculation is that they are harmful for health – http://www.labmuffin.com/should-you-be-avoiding-parabens-the-science/
It’s a personal choice. I use products with parabens

hello anjana..i am going to colour my hair and i am using loreal paris colour protect and i workout daily which makes my hair sweaty.. should i co wash my hai with loreal paris colour protect shampoo?

Hi Simran..if you use shampoo, it is shampooing not cowashing – cowashing stands for “conditioner washing”

Hi Anjana,

My son, aged 13, has very dry scalp with lots of white flakes and itchiness. I tried no poo method, dandruff shampoo with ketoconazal and normal shampoos, but nothing helps him. He is suffering a lot. Would this cowashing be helpful to him? We are in Dubai. Please suggest a conditioner for him.

Hi Radha, sounds like Seborrhea or Psoriasis. Co wash will not suit such conditions. It’s best to see a dermatologist

Hi Anjana,
His skin is acne prone oily skin. Now it is better by applying moisturiser. I am bit confused whether his scalp is dry or oily. I heard that people who has oily skin also have oily scalp and who has dry skin has dry scalp. One day I applied more coconut oil unknowingly. Next day, he had thick patches on his scalp. But he got white flakes on the same day of shampooing. Please help.

YA YA !!
Applying conditioner to your scalp does strip it’s natural oil off but it does strip a lot of hair !! -.-

Hi, good to see curly gair blog for indian ladies. I have been shopping cleansing conditioners from lookfantastic.com here in UK but they do have indian website snd they ship worldwide. They have decent co washes at reasonable prices and good offers. They hv brands like – as i am, keracare, matrix biolage, joico, boucleme etc. Have a look. Cheers

Thanks a ton for the suggestion Ritu 🙂

Hi Anjana besides Enliven (which I love but is out of stock everywhere 🙁 & Revlon flex, can you suggest another suitable conditioner for co-wash in similar price range? I am not a fan of the smell of Revlon flex so thought of checking. TIA

Oriflame ones are light too 🙂

Hi Anjana,
You have beautiful hair <3
Could you please tell me if co washing is alright on an oily scalp. It gets oily within few hours of washing and I shampoo every 2 days. My hair is type 2b(fine) I suppose since it gets wavier/curlier towards the ends than roots. Please let me know 🙂

Divya

Thanks Divya 🙂 Cowashing usually doesn’t suit oily scalp. Though oil regulation will happen if you give it some time. It’s upto you 🙂

Hi,
Very informative post. your blog is a boon for curly hair. Can you suggest some more conditioners?

Thanks Bhagya 😍 the oriflame ones are also great for cowashing.

Hii ,
May I know if Jovees fruit extract conditioner is good for 3a type dry hair ?

Show me the ingredients Christine

They have only given active ingredients-
Glysine Soja, shea butter , jojoba seeds , eclipta , musk root n fruit extract . No idea if it’s strong enough to condition my hair .
Also – any idea if WOW conditioner with virgin coconut oil
Is effective? – both are available on Amazon . Thankyou

Then I wouldn’t trust the brand. WOW conditioner has silicones – so avoid it if you follow strict CG

Thank you !😊

Hi!
Would it be ok to use a relatively thick, moisturizing conditioner to cowash?

That wouldn’t be a great idea because of the texture + emollient overload which may not clean hair well

Hey Anjana, could I use the enliven & revlon flex conditioners to co wash my daughter’s (age 11) curly hair too?

Yes Shalini

Thanx

hey Anjana,
This blog is just the thing I wanted now . A curl dictionary for indian hair. Its very informative.
Just wanted to know a little more regarding what canIi do for hairfall, I had beautiful curly hair in my early 20s but now after 7 years i have a major hairfall issue mostly beacause of wrong products and lots of carelessness regarding hair care . please do help me with this .

Hi Anjana. After co-washing with a lightweight conditioner I assume you don’t have to condition again?? Also are there any particular products you would recommend in the Uk for co washing and decent gels? Thanks

If you feel like your hair is moisturised, then you don’t have to condition again. Boucleme is a European curl brand

Hey I have type 2b/2c low porosity hair, and cantu curl activator is only weighing down my hair… Which looks oily just few hours after shower. I used only a coin size of cream but still the results are oily hair. Please suggest me which cream to use.

Hi Anjana,
Sincere thanks for this initiative. I recently started following curly hair routine and have become addicted to your blog 🙂

Although I have thousands of questions, will start with just one on this topic: I want to try cowashing but I have sever itching and a bit of dandruff (not sure if oily or dry dandruff) , My scalp starts itching 1-2 days after washing; went to a dermatologist but it didn’t help. Can you please suggest something?
Thanks!!

Co washing may not suit dandruff prone scalp. A doctor is your best bet Neha. Find a good one.

Hi. I have coloured curly hair. I have gone through the options listed in your articles about co-washing. I know that using sulphate free and paraben free products are alright for colored hair. Do you know any such co-wash options that i could use? Thanks in advance 🙂

All the options mentioned are sulphate free. And the people who say parabens are bad for hair don’t even know what they are talking about. Read point 17 https://www.curlsandbeautydiary.com/curly-hair-faq/

Thanks for that 🙂
These products will be good to use on coloured hair right ?

Yes

Thanks Anjana 🙂 I guess it’s high time I do that. Meanwhile, is it ok in this case if I wash my hair with shampoo followed by the routine twice a week as without this step, the itching is almost killing by the third/fourth day?

You can 🙂

Thanks for that 🙂

Just to confirm… Are u aware of any other products which would be good for coloured hair ?

Do we apply gel after co wash?

Yes

Hey I just learned about the CG method and I read that wavy girls can try a low poo instead of co washing.
Can you recommend low poos please?

That’s true. I love Devacurl low poo, Bouncecurl medium moisture and Camille rose ginger rinse.

Hi Anjana.. Does co-wash works even on oiled hair??
And should all shampoos be diluted ( CG n non CG) before applying??

Cowashing oiled hair works for some hair types. Doesn’t work for me – it leaves my hair greasy
I do dilute all shampoos – you can choose not to dilute CG shampoos 🙂

Hi Anjana…
I started using the below items.. It’s only one time now.. in the first time what I felt is my hair seems to be sticky.. donno whether I have used my lotion n gel extra.. can you suggest the amount to use.. also in your video I saw that after washing with shampoo n conditioner, you again used conditioner n did not wash.. then you continued with the cantu lotion n devacurl.. so also suggest me if I can do the same method with my products too…
1. Tresemme expert with coconut milk n aloe (not CG friendly)
2. Same conditioner (CG friendly)
3. Cantu creamy hair lotion
4. Enliven hair gel ultimate

What’s your curl type, coarseness and length? How much of each product do you use?

Hi Anjana,
I am gonna start my cgm journey. You have inspired me a lot😍

I think my hair is 2c-3a coarse.
Is Enliven conditioner a good choice ? Especially for the humid Kerala climate? Can I use it as a leave in conditioner too?

Can I use silicon containing conditioner for cowashing?

That’s not recommended Namuna

Can I use silicon containing conditioner for cowashing? I don’t follow cg method . My hair is type 3a curl nd it’s very dry and frizzy

Hi Anjana,
What if I use mousse and hairspray in my hair everyday, is it still a good idea to co-wash?

Chrystell, that depends on the ingredients – if they are all water soluble, then yes.

Is it fine if I cowash my hair everyday except for the one day shampoo?

Yes Binita

Thanks! I am currently using Loreal EverStrong Thickening conditioner. Can it be used for co-washing? The product is listed here: https://www.lorealparisusa.com/products/hair-care/products/conditioner/everstrong-thickening-conditioner.aspx?shade=thickening-conditioner

Binita, It’s preferred to use a silicone free conditioner for cowashing to prevent buildup.

Just found u.. such a wonderful article… can u do an updated version if uve changed anything and give us some product recommendations as i use the loreal vitamino conditioner but it’s quite expensive to do this routine:)

Monisha, I still recommend these conditioners for co washing as they are light and quite cheap.

I have wavy hair and due to hair fall my density of my hair got decreased … Will this co washing helps me in anyway or it will lead to flatten my crown ?

Cowashing may lead to flat crown.

Can vilvah cream conditioner be used as a cowash.
Also any other affordable indian brand /easily available conditioner that can be used as a cowash. I am ok with a BIT of sulphate or a drying alcohol but no silicones

hi Deepika, you could give Vilvah a try. I still find Enliven and Flex to be the best budget cowashes in India.

Anjana.. You wrote in the first paragraph that you wash your hair with shampoo once or twice in a month and cowashing is good for regular wash. Then why did you change it to shampoo washing once or twice in a week? So have you stopped cowashing? Is it not good for hair growth or hair texture on a long run? Please reply as this is confusing.

Hi Anu, I keep changing my washing schedule to suit my needs, climate, activity level etc. If my hair isn’t very dirty, I cowash; else I shampoo. It would be best to find what suits your individual needs 🙂

Hi Anjana! Thanks for all your articles they are very helpful.

I wanted to ask you, should we also use the hair creams like the cantu moisturizing cream and hair gel after cowash.

Hi Nandini, cowash is just an alternative to shampooing so you have to do all other steps as ussal.

Hi, Is co-washing fine for scalp with dandruff? How do you suggest curly hair with dandruff scalp be washed?

It may exacerbate the condition so it is best to use a shampoo.

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